Saturday, November 20, 2010

Comments

Sorry to say I have had to disable comments because Mr. MacDonald just can't seem to stay away from my blog without posting something nasty or something not true.

It's sad that he keeps posting at his site about "stalkers". I find it strange that he keeps talking about it and posting links to blogs at his website. Most people would never find this blog or the other one if he would just stop talking about it and leave it all alone. A person would think he wants to keep it going on purpose...kinda like picking a scab...very sad.

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

A little about me

I am a married lady with a bunch of adult kids. I have always been a live and let live type of person. I do try and make my little part of the world a better place and do what I can for the rest of the world.
We share and give what we can when we can to help others.
I love my husband and take good care of him. I also love my Mom and take good care of her. My Kids are all taking care of themselves and all have jobs and are good and decent people with decent morals and values. (For the record I am not 58 years old like Steve MacDonald thinks.)

This is the ONLY blog that I have made...I wrote every word here and it is TRUE. I do not harass anyone in anyway nor have I ever do so. I have only opened this blog as a way to share my story about Steve MacDonald, "link digger" in hopes that it may save someone else from giving money or advice to this guy and then being abused, like me and other people.

I am not "homophobic", I have several gay friends and had a gay brother. He died of AIDS many years ago. I have even fought for same sex marriage.

Monday, March 8, 2010

My Say

Well I had my say and said what I wanted without being shssed or having my words changed or deleted.

I was sincere and never called anyone bad names or used foul language. I think that everyone knows who and what they are inside unless they are missing an important piece of Human Character...like a Conscience. There seems to be a lot of people with this flaw today and you never know when you are talking with one. They look like anyone one else, you can't SEE mental illness.

Some people change or lose their moral values in the course of their lives...mostly because they have been hurt by love or lost love. They try to replace that feeling of love with sex, drugs, or things. Buying videos for yourself is not love, smoking, eating, drinking...not love. You must love yourself before anyone can love you.

It's a shame that the person in my story just can't live his life instead of dying to live. There are so many good reasons to live and be happy. If you are not happy with your life it is so easy to change it.

If you put your life out in the public view be aware that you are opening a door for anyone to walk in. If you post a diary of everything you do you are putting yourself out there to be judged and criticized. If you are hearing the same thing over and over maybe it's YOU and not them.

Saturday, February 27, 2010

My Weird Link Story

I am just a web surfer that ran into a weird website one day. I had signed up to make points to get prizes just for web surfing at a site called Etour. This was was about 10 to 12 years ago. I was new to the computer then and was learning about the world wide web. Etour was cool because you could click what types of websites you wanted to visit. One of my interests are the paranormal and strange things. Well, it led me straight to weirdlinks.
Now this was a very interesting site with tons of fun things to see and read. I put this site on my favorite list and went there nearly everyday.
The site disappeared and then one day I ran into it again except it had a different name. As the years passed I would lose the site and then find it again with a hunt through yahoo with key word like weird or strange I would find it again.
The last 2 or 3 years I started going in to the forum and even posted a few times. When I found a good story or picture I would email it to the digger and he would usually thank me. He seemed like a nice guy but he also seemed pretty dumb living with someone he complained about all the time. Plus he had a "stalker" that was making him crazy...I learned that is why he would close down his site and then rename it and show up again. Poor dude...here he was poor, sick, and hassled at home and online. I donated to his pay-pal a time or 2 and would send him advice on simple things such as...gargling with peroxide helps a sore throat and the 2 sided tape on your furniture keeps cats from clawing it. Yup, that was me.


Well, as the years have gone on his site has become not such a good place to visit...the links are getting to be gross with gore and porn. Not for me...eww! Once in a while there might be something cool or interesting so I would still visit, but quickly scroll down the page so as not to see the gore. What took the place of the links was the daily diary. It was like a soap opera, a train wreck that you can't look away from. I mean...what a drama lama! This was someone's real life? Really? Holy Crap! Right there for the whole world to see?! We all laughed in this house...what entertainment! I was pretty mad when he posted how much $ he gets a month and what he spends it on. Did I pay for beer and cigarettes? Probably!

Soo, I am on this guys FB and one day his sis in-law calls him out...back and forth they went...and I might add this was public. It was on my wall! So...I added my 2 cents...I told him his sis in-law was right and he was being a jerk. Next thing you know I am a stalker and everything else bad you can think of. I took him off my friend list wrote to his sis in-law and apologized for making a bad situation worse. She friends me and that really pissed him off.
Next thing I get is a gross yucky mail from a Robert Sanchez (really MacDonald)...I sent him a email (like a dummy using my real name and email) telling him about a group of people talking about him at FB. My goal was to show him what a jerk he was being and that by continuing to post about his private life was only adding fuel to the a fire. Instead of thanking me he posted my name and my mail on his website telling the world I was a stalker and a lot of other nasty things.

I opened this blog so that I could post my side of the story to who ever cares. Everything here is the truth and really happened.


Contact me: charmingwebtraverler@yahoo.com